Anne Sexton

Anne Sexton once told a journalist that her fans thought she got better, but actually, she just became a poet. These words are characteristic of a talented poet that received therapy for years but committed suicide in spite of this. The poetry fed her art, but it also imprisoned her in a way. Her parents didn’t expect much of her academically, and after completing her schooling at Rogers Hall, she went to a finishing school in Boston. 

Anne met her husband, Kayo (Alfred Muller Sexton II), in 1948 by correspondence. Her mother advised her to elope after she thought she might be pregnant. Anne and Kayo got married in 1948 in North Carolina. After the honeymoon, Kayo started working at his father-in-law’s wool business. In 1953 Anne gave birth to her firstborn, Linda Gray. Two years later, Linda’s sister, Joyce Ladd, was born. 

But Anne couldn’t cope with the pressure of two small children over and above Kayo’s frequent absence (due to work). Shortly after Joy was born, Anne was admitted to Westwood Lodge, where she was treated by the psychiatrist Dr. Martha Brunner-Orne (and six months later, her son, Dr. Martin Orne, took over). The original diagnosis was for post-natal depression, but the psychologists later decided that Anne suffered from depression of biological nature. 

While she was receiving psychiatric treatment, Anne started writing poetry. It all started after another suicide attempt when Orne came to her and told her that she still had a purpose in life. At that stage, she was convinced that she could only become a prostitute. Orne showed her another talent that she had, and her first poetry appeared in print in the January of 1957. 

She wrote a huge amount of poetry that was published in a dozen poetry books. In 1967 she became the proud recipient of the Pulitzer Prize for Live or Die (1966). In March 1972, Anne and Kayo got divorced. After this, a desperate kind of loneliness took over her life. Her addiction to pills and alcohol worsened. Without Kayo, the house was very quiet, the children were at college, and most of Anne’s friends were avoiding her because they could no longer sympathize with her growing problems. 

Her poetry started playing such a major role in her life that conflicts were written out rather than being faced. Anne didn’t mention a word to Kayo about her intention to get divorced. He knew that she desperately needed him, but her poems, and her real feelings toward him, put it differently. Kayo talks about it in an interview as follows: “... I honestly don’t know, never have known, what her real, driving motive was in the divorce. 

This is another reason why it absolutely drove me into the floor like a nail when she did it. ”On 4 October 1974, she put on her mother’s old fur coat before, a glass of vodka in hand, she climbed into her car, turned the key, and died of monodioxide inhalation. She once told Orne that “I feel like my mother whenever I put it [the fur coat] on.” Her oldest daughter, Linda, was appointed as literary executor, and we have her to thank for the three poetry books that appeared posthumously.