Fair Play

352 pages, 2019

Eve Rodsky

self-improvement

909 books

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It started with the Sh*t I Do List. Tired of being the "shefault" parent responsible for all aspects of her busy household, Eve Rodsky counted up all the unpaid, invisible work she was doing for her family -- and then sent that list to her husband, asking for things to change.

His response was...underwhelming. Finally, Rodsky realized that simply identifying the issue of unequal labor on the home front wasn't enough: She needed a solution to this universal problem. Her sanity, identity, career, and marriage depended on it.

Fair Play is a time- and anxiety-saving system that offers couples a new way to divvy up chores and responsibilities. Rodsky interviewed more than five hundred men and women from all walks of life to figure out what the invisible work in a family entails and how to get it all done efficiently.

With four easy-to-follow rules, 100 household tasks, and a series of conversation starters for you and your partner, Fair Play helps you prioritize what's important to your family and who should take the lead on every chore, from laundry to homework to dinner.

"Winning" this game means rebalancing your home life, reigniting your relationship with your significant other, and reclaiming your Unicorn Space -- the time to develop the skills and passions that keep you interested and interesting. Stop drowning in to-dos and lose some of that invisible workload pulling you down. Are you ready to try Fair Play? Let's deal you in.

Understanding Domestic 'Invisible Work'

In 'Fair Play', Eve Rodsky explores the concept of 'invisible work' - the often overlooked tasks that keep a household running smoothly. From organizing kids' schedules to remembering to buy milk, these tasks are usually shouldered by one person, often leading to resentment and burnout.

The Fair Play System

Rodsky introduces the 'Fair Play' system in her book. This system is designed to help couples divide household tasks more equitably. It's not just about splitting chores 50/50, but about understanding each other's roles and responsibilities, and respecting the effort that goes into 'invisible work'.

Communication is Key

One of the main points in 'Fair Play' is the importance of open and honest communication. Rodsky emphasizes that couples need to have ongoing conversations about their expectations and responsibilities. This helps to prevent misunderstandings and ensures that both parties feel valued and heard.

The Value of Time

In 'Fair Play', Rodsky encourages us to see time as our most valuable resource. She argues that by redistributing domestic tasks fairly, both partners can have more time to pursue their passions, careers, and other personal goals. This not only leads to individual fulfillment, but also to a healthier and happier relationship.

Implementing Fair Play

The book doesn't just talk about the theory, it also provides practical advice on how to implement the Fair Play system. Rodsky offers real-life examples, checklists, and even 'game cards' to help couples start their Fair Play journey. It's a hands-on approach that encourages readers to take action and make positive changes in their lives.

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Fair Play is a game-changing guide for all couples everywhere. It offers a revolutionary solution to the imbalance of domestic responsibilities between partners.