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Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart

192 pages, 2008

self-improvement

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philosophy

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psychology

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Moving beyond personal loss requires a willingness to tolerate pain and a commitment to the future. Dr. Gordon Livingston, a celebrated psychologist, military veteran and father twice bereaved--by suicide and leukemia--has distilled his lifetime of experience into 30 bedrock truths about living (many of them self-inflicted), including: "We are what we do" and "Any relationship is under the control of the person who cares the least."

The Importance of Acceptance

In Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart, Gordon Livingston emphasizes the importance of accepting life as it is, not as we wish it to be. He suggests that we often waste time and energy trying to change things that are beyond our control, instead of focusing on what we can change - ourselves.

The Power of Change

Livingston encourages readers to understand that it's never too late to change. He believes that we are not defined by our past mistakes, but by our ability to learn and grow from them. So, don't be afraid to take a look at your life and make necessary changes.

The Value of Happiness

The book explores the concept of happiness and its importance in our lives. Livingston argues that happiness is a choice, not a result. He encourages readers to find happiness in the present moment, rather than constantly seeking it in the future.

The Role of Love

Livingston digs into the role of love in our lives. He suggests that love is not just a feeling, but an action. It's about showing kindness, understanding, and respect to others. He encourages readers to express love openly and honestly.

The Significance of Responsibility

In Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart, he emphasizes the significance of taking responsibility for our actions. He believes that blaming others for our problems only leads to a cycle of unhappiness. Instead, we should take control of our lives and make decisions that lead to personal growth and fulfillment.

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