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The Top Five Regrets of the Dying
256 pages, 2012
After years of working in occupations that left her unfulfilled, Bronnie Ware decided to pursue a career in palliative care. Without any formal training or qualifications, she found herself working with dying patients. Over time, her work transformed her life as well. She later wrote an article about what people told her were their biggest regrets before they died, and that article became a huge success online. At the requests of many people who read it, Bronnie shares her own personal story about pursuing a fulfilling career path after many years of feeling unfulfilled by her work.
Bronnie Ware's first key takeaway from 'The Top Five Regrets of the Dying' is about the importance of living a life true to yourself. She found that many people regretted not having the courage to live a life true to themselves, instead of living the life others expected of them. So, take a look at your life and ask yourself if you're living it the way you want to, or if you're just trying to meet others' expectations.
The second regret that Ware discusses is working too much. Many people she spoke to wished they hadn't spent so much time on their careers and more time with their loved ones. This is a reminder to find a balance between work and personal life. It's important to work hard, but don't forget to spend time with the people who matter most to you.
Bronnie Ware's research also revealed that many people regretted not expressing their feelings more openly. They often suppressed their feelings to keep peace with others, which led to a life of mediocrity and unfulfilled potential. So, don't be afraid to express your feelings and stand up for what you believe in.
In 'The Top Five Regrets of the Dying', Ware found that many people regretted losing touch with old friends. They got so caught up in their own lives that they let important friendships slip away. This is a reminder to check in with your friends regularly and maintain those relationships.
The final regret that Ware discusses is not letting oneself be happy. Many people didn't realize until the end that happiness is a choice. They stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The fear of change had them pretending to others, and to themselves, that they were content. So, remember to let yourself be happy and make choices that bring joy into your life.
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