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The Three Marriages
384 pages, 2010
Drawing from his own experience and the lives of some of the world's great writers and poets, David Whyte brings compelling insights to our three most essential commitments—to another, to our work, and to ourselves—to frame a complete picture of a satisfying life.
In The Three Marriages, bestselling author, poet, and speaker David Whyte argues that it is not possible to sacrifice one relationship for others without causing severe psychological damage. He says that too often, we fracture our lives and split our energies foolishly so that one or more of these marriages are sacrificed and may wither and die.
In The Three Marriages, David Whyte explores the idea that we have three key relationships in our lives: with our work, our partners, and ourselves. He suggests that these 'marriages' are interconnected and that to be truly fulfilled, we need to find a balance between all three.
Whyte emphasizes the importance of the 'self-marriage'. This is the relationship we have with ourselves, our inner world, and our personal growth. He encourages us to take time to explore this relationship, as it forms the foundation for the other two 'marriages'.
The book also delves into the concept of work as a 'marriage'. Whyte suggests that we should see our work not just as a job, but as a deep, meaningful relationship that requires commitment, passion, and understanding. This perspective can help us find more satisfaction and purpose in our careers.
David Whyte highlights the role of vulnerability in all three 'marriages'. He suggests that being open, honest, and willing to take risks is key to building strong, fulfilling relationships with our work, our partners, and ourselves.
The Three Marriages encourages us to find a balance between our work, our relationships, and our self. Whyte suggests that this balance is not about compromise or sacrifice, but about finding a way to fully engage with all aspects of our lives. This book is a great resource for anyone looking to find more fulfillment and balance in their life.
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