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Quiet

368 pages, 2013

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At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion, and who favor working on their own over working in teams.

To introverts—Rosa Parks, Chopin, Dr. Seuss, and Steve Wozniak—we owe many significant contributions to society. In Quiet, Susan Cain argues that we dramatically undervalue introverts and shows how much we lose. 

She charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal throughout the twentieth century and explores how deeply it has come to permeate our culture.

She also introduces us to successful introverts—from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions.

Passionately argued, impeccably researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally importantly, how they see themselves. 

Introverts are Powerful

In Quiet, Susan Cain explores the power of introverts. She shows us that being quiet and reserved isn't a weakness, but a strength. Introverts have unique skills and abilities that are often overlooked in our extrovert-dominated society. So, if you're an introvert, embrace it! You have a lot to offer.

The Extrovert Ideal

Cain digs into the concept of the 'Extrovert Ideal' in our society. This is the idea that being outgoing, sociable and assertive is the best way to be. But is it really? Cain challenges this notion and encourages us to see the value in introversion.

Introverts in the Workplace

The book also takes a look at introverts in the workplace. Cain argues that introverts can be just as successful as extroverts, if not more so. They're often more thoughtful, more focused, and better at listening - all key skills in the business world.

The Power of Solitude

Cain also explores the power of solitude. She shows us that spending time alone can lead to great creativity and innovation. So, don't be afraid to take some time for yourself. You never know what you might come up with!

Rethinking Our Approach

Finally, Quiet encourages us to rethink our approach to introversion. Instead of trying to change introverts into extroverts, we should celebrate their unique qualities. So, if you're an introvert, don't try to change who you are. Embrace it!

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Quiet is a profound and enlightening book that can forever change how we view introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.

Adam GrantAdam Grant - Organizational psychologist

Quiet is a book of liberation from old ideas about the value of introverts. Cain’s intelligence, respect for research, and vibrant prose put Quiet in an elite class with the best books from Malcolm Gladwell, Daniel Pink, and other masters of psychological non-fiction.

Malcolm GladwellMalcolm Gladwell - Journalist, author

Quiet is a smart, long-overdue tribute to introverts who constitute as much as half the world’s population. It’s an important book that should embolden anyone who's ever been told, 'Speak up!'

Daniel PinkDaniel Pink - Author, speaker
Adam GrantMalcolm GladwellDaniel Pink

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