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Humiliation
288 pages, 1995
philosophy
711 booksWhat lies behind our social pangs of humiliation and the emotional strategies we employ to avoid being shamed in front of others? Recognizing how much we care about how others see us, this wise and witty book tackles the complex subject of shame and humiliation. In his view, our lives are permeated with sometimes merely uncomfortable, sometimes hair-raising rituals of shame and humiliation.
Take the unwanted dinner invitation, the exchange of valentines in grade school, or the diabolically ingenious invention of the bridal registry. Readers will have no trouble recognizing the social situations William Ian Miller finds indicative of our often perilous dealings with each other.
In 'Humiliation', William Ian Miller takes us on a journey to explore the complex emotion of humiliation. He digs deep into its roots, its effects, and how it shapes our behavior and relationships. It's a fascinating look into a feeling we've all experienced but rarely understand.
Miller's research shows that humiliation is not just a personal experience, but a powerful social tool. It can be used to control, manipulate, and maintain social order. This book will make you see the power dynamics in your own life in a new light.
One of the key takeaways from the book is the connection between humiliation and honor. Miller explains that humiliation often comes from a perceived loss of honor or status. By understanding this, we can better navigate our own feelings of humiliation and work towards restoring our sense of self-worth.
Miller doesn't just look at humiliation in our personal lives, he also explores its role in literature and history. From famous literary characters to historical figures, he shows how humiliation has shaped narratives and changed the course of events.
Perhaps the most important takeaway from 'Humiliation' is how to cope with this powerful emotion. Miller provides insights and strategies for dealing with humiliation, helping us to not only understand it, but also to overcome it. This book is a must-read for anyone who wants to learn how to handle humiliation with grace and resilience.
