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The Way to Love
196 pages, 1995
Anthony de Mello's writing is characterized by his down-to-earth and homely style, but he also manages to be profound and thought-provoking. This book is no exception. With his usual pithiness, he implores his readers to break through illusion, the great obstacle to love, by seeing the other as he or she really is: a human being just like ourselves.
Anthony de Mello emphasizes the importance of self-awareness. He suggests that we often live our lives on autopilot, without truly understanding our actions or motivations. By becoming more aware, we can start to see the world in a new light and make more conscious decisions.
The book encourages readers to let go of their attachments to people, things, and ideas. These attachments often cause us pain and suffering. By letting go, we can find true freedom and happiness.
De Mello argues that we often try to control things that are beyond our control. This futile attempt at control only leads to frustration and unhappiness. Instead, he suggests that we should accept the things we cannot change and focus on what we can control - our own actions and reactions.
The Way to Love explores the concept of love in a profound way. It suggests that true love is not about possession or attachment, but about understanding and acceptance. When we truly love someone, we accept them as they are, without trying to change them.
The book encourages readers to embark on a journey of self-discovery. It suggests that by looking inward and understanding ourselves better, we can find true happiness and fulfillment. This journey may not be easy, but it is certainly worth it.
