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Passages
576 pages, 2006
At long last, here's your story.
You'll see yourself, your friends, and your lovers in this book. It'll help you handle each crisis as an opportunity for creative change -- to become everything you're meant to be.
Author Gail Sheehy's brilliant road map of the second half of life shows that the personality and sexual changes we go through in our 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond are a natural occurrence; we can make the most of these extreme shifts in our lives.
The Trying 20s -- The safety of home left behind, we begin trying on lives like different uniforms and possible partners, searching for the perfect fit. The Catch 30s -- illusions shaken, it's time to make, break or deepen life commitments with our eyes wide open.
The Forlorn 40s -- Dangerous years when the dreams of youth demand reassessment; men and women switch characteristics -- sexual panic is common but the greatest opportunity for self-discovery awaits. The Refreshed (or Resigned) 50s -- Best of life for those who let go of old roles and find a renewal of purpose.
In her book, Gail Sheehy suggests that life is not a linear path, but a series of passages. Each passage represents a different stage of life, with its own challenges and opportunities. So, don't be afraid of change, it's just a new passage waiting to be explored.
Sheehy's research in 'Passages' helps us understand that life crises are not random, but predictable and even necessary for personal growth. So, next time you're going through a tough time, remember it's just a part of your journey and growth.
One of the key takeaways from 'Passages' is the importance of adaptability. As we navigate through different life stages, being able to adapt to new situations is crucial. So, take a look at how you handle change and see if there's room for improvement.
Sheehy encourages readers to dig deep into self-reflection. By understanding our past and present, we can better navigate our future passages. So, take some time to reflect on your life, it might just help you understand your next steps.
In 'Passages', Gail Sheehy reminds us that age is just a number and it's never too late to start a new passage. So, don't let your age hold you back from exploring new opportunities and experiences.
